Flirting with a threesome

Once we decided to try a threesome, we needed to find a lady for it.

We started looking around local bars and dance clubs, but without success.

Sometimes there were wilder girls that showed they weren’t afraid to kiss each other. But every time they only seemed interested in their friends.
It’s so hard to get in-between that and we had no interest in the ones that already had a guy.

Clubs that featured lesbian night were a lot better. One night we actually found a lady there that was happy to have some all-female adventures, and while it never involved all three of us at the same time, the sex between us two hours after each encounter was spectacular.

It was also a lot of fun comparing what happened to what might happen with the three of us.

Moving on

The whole process was exciting, flirting and romantic conquest always are!
The club and bar scene never yielded more than that though, so we started looking online.

The first site we hit was the biggest one out there, Adult FriendFinder (over 30 million members, all there for one reason).

We signed up, and were surprised by the amount of ladies in our area that were looking for a couple. Hot ones too, and you should see the pictures and videos they post on their profile, that in itself was an experience!

Everybody there has different tastes and expectations, and it didn’t take long to join the action there. We flirted with a few girls, had a lot of fun in the chatrooms and checking out the thousands of webcams from all over the world.

Again, the process of flirting (checking out profiles, sending them emails and chatting together as a couple) is a blast! You can read more about our adventures there in this blog post.

While all of that was pretty much from the moment we signed up, it was a few weeks before we found somebody that seemed just right for us.

Beware of scam sites

In the meanwhile we kept trying other sites, but most of them came down to the same thing:

Right after you sign up with those other sites women on there start flirting with you, sometimes even before you put up a profile and picture. Once you pay for the upgraded membership to communicate back to them (you can’t otherwise), their profile just disappears.

The only women that did not miraculously disappear weren’t anywhere near what we were looking for.

Besides Adult FriendFinder we found only one other site with real people, Match.com.

We actually got kicked off Match.com because we put in our profile that we were married and they don’t allow that.

Pretty funny, since a good friend of ours says that most of the guys she meets on there wind up being married, even though their profile says they’re not!