Why the guy should take charge in a FFM threesome

In most of the blog posts here we keep stressing that your first priority should be that both the other girls need to be kept happy and satisfied in a threesome.

The reason is simple: if they are it will be a great experience, which will likely be repeated. If they were not satisfied you will have a very awkward time, especially with the aftermath. So the satisfaction of all ladies involved is absolutely key.

Why she’ll want a threesome

You see, if you’re a guy in a threesome with two girls, you will have your fun one way or the other.

Just the thrill of two hungry pussies to slide in and out of right there is fantastic, and having two women desire you so much that they are willing to share is a magnificent feeling like no other.

Now consider why a girl would want to share you with another girl, what’s in it for them?

When it’s the first threesome for a girl, the reason she agreed is probably a mix of curiosity and lust. If she comes away from the experience feeling she was mainly a prop for the enjoyment of you or you and the other girl, it will likely be her last threesome, and quite possibly the last time you’ll do anything with her that doesn’t involve shouting or a cold shoulder.

Admittedly, it’s a delicate balancing act that involves great effort and constant awareness on your part. But it is so fucking worth it! In The optimal threesome experience we explained that one of the most fantastic things about having a threesome is if both girls look at you in admiration afterwards, and how to achieve that.

One of the least rewarding things would be having one or both of the girls leave in anger, frustration or boredom, and frankly it won’t take much to have one of those happen.

But if they are entertained, involved and stimulated from the start you diminish that chance significantly.

And the more orgasms they have early on, the more giving and forgiving they are later on.

How to make it happen

Now, as much as they’ll enjoy the experience and do things naturally in the heat of passion, you’ll more
than likely be the one that has to initiate and direct the majority of what happens. If you do your homework you’ll be able to have one riding the south face while the other does you cowgirl, or orchestrate a daisy chain for example. Don’t be too pushy though, you’ll find they’ll have a great time enjoying each other, to the point where it seems they’ve forgotten all about you.

Poor guy…

Just use your hands and tongue to explore and stimulate them, and if it’s gone on for long enough try getting into a position where you can lick at least one vagina, you’ll be amazed at how fast the attention will return to you.

The whole threesome experience is like that; the focus flows from one of the three to the next, and you have to realize that it is usually up to the guy to direct that flow in a way none of the girls feels left out too much.