Threesome prep
If you’ve had a threesome with your wife/girlfriend before, you will have a decent idea of what she’s comfortable with.
But if it’s your first, you might want to find that out before you do something in the heat of the passion that will bring your adventure (and possibly your relationship) to a screeching halt.
It’s all about timing and common sense.
As far as timing goes:
When trying to find out, choose the right moment
When she’s sorting out your dirty clothes for the laundry, it might not be the right time to ask her if she’d mind it if you licked the other girls’ pussy.
Wait until you got her tipsy with some wine, bring her to an orgasm with a healthy amount of foreplay involving a lot of tongue, and after she comes and has a moment to catch her breath start kissing her breasts. From there you look up and ask if she would enjoy having you and another girl taking turns pleasing her down there with your mouths. When she agrees that would probably be a nice thing, ask her how she feels about you and her doing that to another girl instead.
You’ll probably have a higher success rate with the second scenario.
And if she’s still not sure, kick it down a notch to something that is just a little less intimate. Fingers, vibrators, you can always build on that later once she gets comfortable with those.
How to make sure you get yours
The same goes for things you’d like done to you; ask if she’d mind if the girl strokes your balls a little before you ask if she minds if you take turns deep-throating the two of them.
Now, it’s never come up with us because I’m more than fine with anything the two girls do as long as there are no other men involved, but if you as a guy have anything you might not be comfortable with, it’s equally important that you discuss that beforehand.
We’ve been real lucky with most of the ladies we found on Adult FriendFinder. Just the fact they were on that site in the first place meant they’ve been with a couple before, and were familiar with rules and boundaries. Plus they gave us some great ways to expand our horizons without it being uncomfortable.
Remember, if all three of you have a great time it’s something that you’ll always remember and might happen again, while having even one of the three uncomfortable with even one thing can take forever to repair.
