Random stranger threesome

Having your girl make out with some chick that you just met at a bar or a rock show is awesome! It can be anywhere, really, but those are by far the best places for it. And while it’s cool enough by itself, it can lead to all kinds of mind blowing experiences down the line; it is a bond forged in sex, lust and fun! The woman in the couple will have to take most of the initiative here, as she’ll be the one doing all the naughty stuff like grabbing a feel of the other girls’ more intimate places and stealing hot, passionate kisses wherever possible.

Find a playful chick

What you are looking for at those places is a girl who is either by herself or with friends that she’s clearly not joined to the hip to.

As a couple, it is always best for the woman to make the first contact. It is way less threatening and weird, and has a lot higher chance of success. The only time the guy comes in handy is when you see the girl is bothered by some dude, resolutely move between them to shield the girl (while showing you are non-threatening by casually indicating you’re with a girl already), and then having the girls strike up a conversation. The approach can be anything, but a question is best as it requires an answer from her and creates involvement. First impressions are always super important, so tell her you love her shoes and ask where she got them rather than asking where the bathroom is. Questions and compliments about any clothing item are a great start and are obviously way more natural coming from the lady in the couple than from the guy.

Set the stage for the first contact

Once you got her attention you’ll want to loosen her up and create a comfortable layer of sexual casualness. Joke around, make her laugh and smoothly bring the focus to more naughty stuff, setting the stage for the first contact. While the guy should make occasional general jokes to stay involved (but not too much), leave the more intimate ones to both the girls. A bar or rock show (preferably a much smaller setting with some local band) is good for this kind of hook-up because you can point to people in the crowd and build on that:

Girl from couple:

“Now there’s an outfit, check out that girl’s boobs”

Your new friend:

“Wow, I don’t think I could ever get away with that”

Girl from couple:“Get out of here. You’ve got great boobs!!!”
(Puts her hand on one of the new girl’s breasts)
“Oh, wow, those are awesome! Are they natural?”

 

You know if she’s game

This is a key point of course. You can tell right away if the girl enjoyed it, was indifferent to it or found it awkward. If she appeared to enjoy it, build on that, otherwise cut your losses and move on to some other girl, because it’s more than likely not going to happen.

Earlier on we wrote about a comfortable layer of sexual casualness. Each of those three is important. The sexual part is obvious, the more sexually charged the situation is, the better. The casualness mainly comes from acting like you guys do this stuff all the time and there is nothing weird about it. The more the other girl buys into that, the further she’ll go, but keep it casual and smooth, the moment she’ll feel forced in any way the whole thing will collapse like a deck of cards. As a guy you probably have the urge to join in once the groping and kissing starts, but that has a 90% chance of ruining the whole thing. Let the ladies do all the groping, kissing and exploring of intimate places. It is okay for your lady to grab and rub your dick through your pants while she is making out with this other girl, but absolutely do not join in, unless you want the whole thing to end in an awkward crash.

Or unless both girls (and we mean both) tell you it’s okay to join in, but the chances of that are pretty small that first encounter, so just enjoy the moment. Because here’s the deal: if the other girl had a great time with you guys and there was touching of intimate places and kissing between the girls, but not the guy, she won’t feel awkward at all about meeting with you guys again. On a second or third date you can casually see what her thoughts are on taking this a few steps further, but we’ll get into that in Getting one of your female friends in the mix as a couple.