Finding a girl for a real Threesome

Finding a girl to have a threesome with for a couple isn’t that much different from finding a sex partner as a single person for NSA (No Strings Attached) encounters. Sure, there are a lot less girls that will have a threesome than the ones that will have regular sex, but the process is basically the same: you find a possible candidate and you then try to woo them with all you’ve got.

As far as finding a girl, it’s the same too. When you’re trying to find somebody for an NSA hookup, you don’t go looking at a church or a library. The options pretty much boil down to this: you can pick up a chick in a bar or club, try to convince a stripper to have sex with you or you can find somebody online. We discussed the first two options in previous posts, so let’s discuss the online option. There are tons of dating sites out there; you can find a great list of those here.

We tried a number of those, and found they are very similar in options, so we decided to go with the one that has the most members, Adult FriendFinder (AFF), that way we increased our chances of success considerably. With over 30 million members (all looking to hook up!) it blows all others away, and it is one of the 100 most popular sites in the USA.

You’ll find lots of girls in your area

The beautiful thing about these online dating sites is that you can stay anonymous, which makes it easier to be bold in approaching somebody on there. Also, everyone on the site is there for specific reasons (mostly sexual hookups), and you can see right away what they are so you know who to target.

There were a ton of girls in our area that indicated they were interested in hooking up with a couple. So many that it actually took several days to check all their profiles out. It didn’t help that some of those girls had profiles loaded with steaming hot pictures and commentary, and we had to interrupt our “research” several times to release some of the huge erotic tension that was building up because of that. Some of the girls even have home videos of them fucking, sucking, fingering their wet pussy or going to town with one or more vibrators, fucking awesome!

Rope her in

Well, if the selection process was hot, the flirting stage was an incredible thrill. AFF allows you to add anyone you want on there to your hot list, and we had a few dozen very eligible candidates. We send them each a message with some pictures to introduce ourselves. Some didn’t react, some told us they were not in the market for a threesome at that time, but we got so many positive replies that it became hard to choose. While selecting initially who to choose from all the hot profiles was a blast, it is hard to describe how fucking great it feels to have several hot chicks get back to you and say that they would love to get to know the two of you better!

I guess it helped that the girls liked our writing style. Several commented on how our message made them giggle, which we later learned was a nice change from guys just sending them pictures of their cock and do some arrogant bragging. So anytime you first contact a girl online remember to be original, use humor and where possible insert some genuine flattery. It should not be too hard to point out something from the images or the introduction they wrote in their profile that turned you on, trust me.

Dream becomes reality

Of the positive replies we got there were several that we felt comfortable enough with to send our phone number, and for the first time we were talking to girls who very possibly wanted to have a threesome with us rather than the abstract and anonymous online process it had been so far. Holy shit, what a thrill! After decades of dreaming of having a threesome, months of fantasizing and planning with my wife, this was the moment it actually became reality!!

Not right away, it took a few phone calls back and forth, and that was pretty cool in itself. In our post First Threesome Experience a friend of mine describes how a girl they met on AFF got so excited talking to them on the phone that she started fingering herself. Well, the same thing happened to us, but it was the girl and my wife both doing it on the phone while I was at work. She blushingly told me about it when I got home… They made up for it later though when I was sitting on the edge of our pool and had both of them take turns sucking me off.

But I digress (sorry, lots of great memories come flooding back as I recall those early encounters). Not everything went smooth of course, but the girls that we met through AFF were all pretty experienced with threesomes, and besides showing us a lot of the ropes they were very respectful of our needs as well as our boundaries. And not all ladies turned out to be as attractive as they made themselves sound in their profile, but that is why you’ll want to chat with them on the phone first and then set up a date at some neutral place to get to know each other better.

Another cool thing is that Adult FriendFinder is free and it’s real easy to sign up, within minutes you’ll be able to browse through the tons of ladies in your area or checking out hot web cams from other members around the world. Take some time though to make your profile as appealing as possible. Keep it original and add the right touch of humor to make it stand out. Select some hot pictures of both of you to upload. Just remember, first impressions are hugely important.

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