Threesome with a friend

Recruiting the female friend of either the guy or the girl in a couple for a threesome is often viewed as a risky move because it could ruin that friendship. We’ve done this a few times (the threesomes, not the ruining of friendships), and things worked out great every time.

How it will work

The key is to make absolutely 100% sure that everyone understands and respects the boundaries, and that none of the ladies feels afterwards like not enough attention was paid to her. When establishing those boundaries, err on the side of caution, and as far as the other thing, read some of our blog posts like The most important thing about threesomes that show you how to make sure the girls had such an awesome time they can’t wait to do it again.

Ways to talk her into it

So how do you get her to join the two of you? One option is to just ask her. Timing and delivery are everything, of course, but just be honest about it. Before you do, ask her how she feels about threesomes. If she says she’s had one and liked it or if she indicates she’s at least curious about it; score! Again, be smart about how you word it and make sure you bring it up as a couple, but carefully let her know how you’ve both been wanting to try one and that you would be so much more comfortable if it was with a good friend like her instead of some stranger. Depending on the situation it could be better if the girls discussed it without the guy in the room.

Or you can slowly but surely seduce her. This will take a team effort from you and your partner, so you both have to be on board and coordinate your efforts. You’ll want to increase the erotic energy between you three to an intense yet fun and comfortable level:
– Encourage any interaction between the girls that involves touching each others breasts, ass and other intimate places so it becomes a hot but natural thing for all three of you
– Make sure you both keep complimenting her on how good she and her various assets look, how cool and funny she is and how glad you are to have her as a friend (as ling as it’s sincere, you can never do enough of this)
– Take her to sexually supercharged places like strip clubs and treat her like she’s the most desirable person in there, while engaging her to the point where the three of you are an inseparable, wild, happy bundle of sexual energy just waiting to spill over.

Closing the deal

Once she is comfortable with the concept of intimate touches between all three of you (but especially between the girls) get her in a position where the ladies are happily entangled on each others lap. A happy, intimate hug between the girls would work best. If you can tell she’s totally comfortable with that, you both let her know you think she’s so hot it makes your head explode, and that you’ve often talked about how awesome it would be to have her join you two for a night.

Don’t be forceful about it, and don’t apply pressure, because unless she clearly completely rejects the idea you’ve got her. If not right there and then, it’ll be in the near future. After all, a bombshell like that needs some time to sink in, and if you give her a day or two to get used to the idea it will seem a lot more natural to her. Again, don’t force it, give it time, and keep showering her with compliments and attention until another intimate moment arrives where you can try again.

Don’t forget about your own lady

All the while the guy wants to make sure he gives his lady all the attention she could possibly hope for when they are alone, so she won’t feel jealous of all the focus on her friend at any point. This should probably include regular epic sessions of eating her pussy for long times on end while using vibrators and telling her how hot she is. Also, discuss with her how horny the whole process makes you (the seduction process, not her friend!) If anything she will remember how much sexual attention she got while you guys were trying to seduce another girl, that in itself will be a huge incentive with future projects.

When the moment arrives, keep the experience as hot and fun as possible while never allowing situations that could possibly spark jealousy beyond what is reasonable in a threesome. So as a guy, kiss the friend’s body anywhere but don’t kiss her mouth, and let your partner dictate where you can put your dick. As we described in The most important thing about threesomes you’ll want to make sure both girls come early, hard and as often as possible, this will loosen them up to the point where they’ll become very giving, and you will all have a spectacular time!