Threesome traps

Threesomes are great to spice up a relationship, as long as you don’t forget this:
You’ll always want to make sure all parties involved had such an amazing experience they’ll want to do it again. We went over this in The most important thing about threesomes, but that only deals with what to do during a threesome.

The traps you’ll want to avoid

There is a lot more to it of course, and if you want your relationship to be strong while having your adventures, these are the traps you’ll want to avoid:

The under appreciation trap

The most important one of them all. Finding a girl for a threesome requires a fair amount of flirting and wooing. It is real easy for your wife or girlfriend to get annoyed by all the attention the new girl is getting. This is not abnormal, or bitchy of her, it is just because she cares for you enough. Either way you’ll want to avoid that at all cost.
One good way is to pre-empt those jealous feelings by making her feel extra special.
Take her out, just the two of you. When she wants to talk about the other girl, even if it sounds she’s all excited about it, tell her you want this date to just be about the two of you, then change the subject.
Keep your eye on the ball at all times; the ultimate goal is to show your love and dedication for her so much that she won’t feel threatened by the experience. And keep in mind, if she’s willing to have a threesome with you and another girl she’s a keeper and definitely worthy of being treated extra special.

The contact trap

Nothing will invoke a bad reaction from your partner like being in contact with a threesome prospect without her knowing about it, even if you were going to tell her right away.
Again, this is not because your partner is a bitch or anything, it’s all about trust and respect.
She trusts you enough to share you with another woman. Share is the key word here; it’s a thing you do together. As long as that’s the case everything is fine. The moment you leave her out in any way that trust could crumble fast. That’s just the way it is, and you need to respect that at all times. Not just because you want to avoid ruining anything, but because she is clearly worthy of that respect.

So what you’ll want to do is set clear rules about what is allowed (a good idea for every possible aspect of threesomes). We find most of our threesome girls on Adult FriendFinder. There are several ways to contact them over there: you can send a flirt, email them, talk in a chat room or have a web cam session.
We agreed it is okay to send flirts, but any other contact should either be through both of us or between just the women.
It works great that way; there are never any trust issues from anyone.

Be smart

Of course there are times when approaching a new chick together isn’t moving along as well as I’d like to. Rather than taking matters into my own hand, I plan a nice romantic evening with just the two of us. Plenty of candles and wine, go down on her a little (but not too much), and when I slowly start sliding my dick in and out of her pussy I remind her of the times she had some other girl lick her clit at the same time I was fucking her, and how that added to the sensation.

She’ll usually start texting or emailing our new prospect the very next day.