How to find a girl for a threesome

There are many ways in which you as a couple can have a hot time with another lady. We’ll tell you every one of those delicious ways, we’ll show you what type of lady you’ll want for each one, and we’ll show you how to find that girl and get her to join you.

The first thing you have to do is appreciate the many awesome possibilities. And with appreciate I mean not only know them, but savor every second and enjoy the hell out of them. When a guy thinks of a threesome, glorious moments come to mind like having one girl suck your hard cock while the other licks your balls, things like that. While that is a spectacular situation of course, it will not happen right away. Having your girl start making out with some random chick in a bar might not be in the same ballpark, but think about it this way:

  • It is a hot situation, worthy of being thoroughly enjoyed
  • It shows that your girl is game for that and possibly more, which not only needs to be appreciated but encouraged and cultivated
  • It shows that other girls can be found that want to have a hot and steamy time with you guys (at the very least with your girl, a good start, and possibly with both of you)

Threesome situations

So you see, while it may not meet your initial idea of what a threesome should be, a situation like that can be a stepping stone towards it, and is very enjoyable to say the least for the time being.
As you might imagine there are a ton of possible situations between the two bookends (your chick making out with another girl in a bar, and a wild fuck session with sexual positions straight from the best porn movies). And guess what, they’re all amazing, as long as you take the time to appreciate them, because of what they are (a hot, fun moment unlike what you’re used to) and because of what they might lead to (if your chick was willing to try this one thing and enjoyed it, she can be convinced to try the next step).

Your threesome options

Obviously with all these different scenarios there are different ways to find a suitable lady to go along with that particular situation. It would take too long to go over all those in this one post though. So we’ll list overviews here of the different situations and the type of girl you’ll need for that.

A random chick at a bar or a rock show
Having your girl make out with some chick you just met at a bar or a rock show is awesome! Those are by far the best places to accomplish something like that, but anywhere is good of course. Even if it’s just the girls kissing and feeling each other up during that first encounter, it is a thrill and it can easily lead to much wilder situations down the road if handled correctly. Find out how you can make it happen in Random stranger threesome

Having a hot time as a couple with stripper at a club
A strip club is a perfect place to have an amazing sexual experience involving you, your wife or girlfriend and another girl. No obligations, plenty of willing candidates to choose from, and you can slowly expand the limits of how far your partner is willing to go in a fun way. You’ll want a stripper that is into women, that is fun, energetic and willing to go far. We’ll tell you all about it in The girlfriend experience with a stripper for a couple at a club

Sexual adventures with a stripper outside her club
Strippers are the embodiment of sexual fantasies, so if you’re lucky enough to snag one for a threesome, go for it!
The cool things about having a threesome with a stripper is that they are used to separating carnal pleasure from emotional attachment, and that they usually come with a vast experience in a number of situations, so you’ll more than likely wind up doing things you haven’t tried before.
You’re looking for a wild, playful lady that loves being with women as much as with men. As strippers get showered with all kinds of proposals by all types of people daily, there are a lot of things you’ll have to offer her; she’ll have to be comfortable with both of you, enjoy your company and be convinced she’ll have a fantastic time. Read more about it in The threesome party

A lesbian experience with the couple’s lady
While some couples are ready for a threesome, others need a little nudging, and it’s usually the lady that needs to be convinced. Taking her to a strip club is a great way to get her acquainted with the true delights of the soft and sensual touch of another woman. But nothing gets her hooked like a true lesbian experience where warm secret places get explored in ecstatic embrace that slowly but inevitably gets hotter and heavier until it climaxes in wave after wave of orgasmic pleasure! So if she’s on the fence about the whole thing, give her an opportunity to explore that side of her sexuality, and you’ll love the results. Find out more about it in A lesbian experience on the road to a threesome

A girl in a Swingers Club for a threesome
The chance that you will find a lady at a swingers club who wants to have a threesome with just the two of you isn’t that big, because most women come there with a guy, who will more than likely want to be involved somehow. But if you do find one, you’ll likely be all set as far as what she’ll do and the many options of how to do it with all the available props in the club. We’ll show you all the ins and outs in
A threesome in a Swingers Club

A girl for your Threesome
Most of the situations described above require a swagger that can only come from genuine experience and a fairly perfect place to find what you need (a bar with the right type of single girls, a strip club loose enough to allow certain things, a lesbian or swingers club with the right kind of girls). If you are just starting out it is likely you won’t have that swagger, or maybe your area simply doesn’t have any of those places. Don’t despair; with the way that we found our first few girls you won’t need any of that. We’ll tell you all about it in Finding a girl for a real threesome

Recruiting your friend to be the extra girl in your threesome
Most couples don’t want to go this way because it has a decent chance of becoming awkward at one point or another, but it is always possible to have a threesome with a girl you’ve been friends with for a while. We’ll explain how to accomplish that in Getting one of your female friends in the mix as a couple